The character feels a strong sense of caution while interacting with a woman whose vulnerability is evident in her eyes. He recognizes that any misstep could lead her to leave the small town of Virgin River and disregard its needs, which adds pressure to his actions. The thought of her driving away in her BMW haunts him, motivating him to tread carefully in their relationship.
Reflecting on his struggles, he recalls how difficult it was to walk away from her after an event, feeling an overwhelming desire to comfort her and promise that he could make everything better. His feelings are intense, and he is eager for a chance to show her he can provide the support she needs, indicating a deep emotional connection that complicates his decision-making.