The ambiguity surrounding the term "hooking up" often leads to confusion among friends. Some interpret it as a simple kiss, while others view it as a more intimate sexual encounter. This lack of clarity can create misunderstandings about what individuals mean when they share their experiences. Kaling humorously suggests that we should establish a clear definition, proposing that "hooking up" should strictly refer to sexual activities, with any kissing categorized as "made out."

Moreover, Kaling emphasizes that as people mature, especially after the age of twenty-eight, mere kissing should lose its significance in conversations about relationships. She humorously points out exceptions, like for Mormons, positioning her perspective within a lighthearted context. By advocating for this universal definition, she encourages a more straightforward dialogue about romantic experiences among friends.