In her book "Conflict Is Not Abuse," Sarah Schulman discusses the concept of a "cadre" of bad friends who influence individuals to engage in unethical behaviors. These friends can create a toxic environment where morally questionable choices become normalized, leading to unjust actions that harm others. This dynamic emphasizes the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive, ethical individuals who encourage responsible behavior.

Schulman argues that recognizing the negative impact of such friendships is crucial for personal growth and accountability. By understanding how peer pressure can distort one’s moral compass, individuals can take responsibility not only for their actions but also for the influences they allow into their lives. Repairing relationships and fostering a sense of community responsibility can help counteract the negatives brought on by this detrimental group dynamic.