These days people seemed to suggest that you should talk about everything, even those things that people never talked about in the past, but did this make life any easier? She was not sure. In fact, she thought there were occasions on which talking about distressing things merely kept those things alive, whereas not talking about them, consigning them to the past, forgetting them, allowed one to think about things that were positive, things that made the world a bit better.
The notion that open communication about distressing matters is universally beneficial is challenged by the protagonist's inner conflict. While society encourages discussing everything, she questions whether this truly alleviates life's burdens. Instead, she believes that revisiting painful subjects can often prolong their impact, preventing healing and acceptance.
In contrast, she suggests that choosing to let go of past troubles can provide space for positivity and growth. By focusing on uplifting experiences and memories, one can foster a more optimistic outlook, ultimately contributing to a better world. This perspective highlights the complexity of communication in emotional contexts.
