This certainly isn't the first time you've slept-I do mean slept with-a woman, is it? I asked. He had been married, though I seemed to recall that he had spent much of his married life living separately from his wife. He pursed his lips thoughtfully, as though trying to recall. Well, no. I do think it may be the first time I've done it entirely voluntarily, though. Oh, I am flattered! He glanced at me, smiling slightly. So you should be, he said quietly.
The conversation reveals a character reflecting on their past relationships, specifically in terms of intimacy. The speaker questions whether the man has had previous sexual experiences, hinting at a history of separation even during marriage. His thoughtful response suggests a deeper contemplation of his choices and experiences, distinguishing between forced intimacy and a genuine, voluntary act.
His admission that this experience may be his first entirely of his own volition indicates a shift in his perspective, highlighting the significance of this moment. The flirtatious exchange brings a lightness to the dialogue, with a hint of pride in his statement, suggesting a newfound appreciation for consensual connection. This interaction encapsulates themes of love, choice, and self-discovery.