This intimacy is not necessary; no one is compelling me to open my inmost self and lay it naked, undefended, against that of another – merely for the joy of the communion.
by Sebastian Faulks
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The quote reflects the idea that the act of sharing our deepest selves with others is a choice, not a requirement. It emphasizes that vulnerability can be a beautiful experience, stemming from the desire for connection rather than obligation. The speaker recognizes that there is no external pressure compelling them to expose their innermost thoughts and feelings; instead, it's a voluntary act, driven by the joy that such communion can bring.

This notion of intimacy highlights the complex nature of relationships, suggesting that the bond formed through sharing one’s true self can lead to meaningful connections. However, it also acknowledges the inherent risks involved when one chooses to be open and unguarded with another person. Ultimately, it is the joy of that connection and the search for understanding that drives individuals to embrace intimacy willingly.

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