In order to truly experience the joy of play, we must commit ourselves to a person, activity, or experience, fully immersing ourselves while letting go of distractions. This duality reflects the nature of commitment; it involves both dedication and the challenges of neglecting other responsibilities or obligations.
Allender highlights that engaging in play necessitates a degree of vulnerability, as it requires us to focus on the present moment and the chosen pursuit. This process can feel like a betrayal to our other duties, yet it is essential for rediscovering joy and creativity in life.