True confidence isn't easily reflected in first encounters. It often requires several interactions to truly understand if someone possesses genuine self-assurance or if they are merely putting on a facade of confidence. The subtleties of a person's character may remain hidden until a deeper connection is formed.

In her book, "The Art of Being: 8 Ways to Optimize Your Presence & Essence for Positive Impact," author Susan C. Young emphasizes that the essence of true confidence lies in authenticity. Observing someone's behavior over time can reveal their true nature beyond initial appearances, fostering a more meaningful understanding of their character.