In her book "Passion and Purity," Elisabeth Elliot emphasizes the importance of patience and trust in God's timing. She advises individuals to wait for clear guidance before taking action, highlighting that premature decisions can lead to misunderstandings and hurt feelings. Waiting allows for a more thoughtful approach to love and relationships.

Elliot also cautions against manipulating or disregarding others' emotions while navigating romantic interests. She suggests that one should avoid assumptions and stay silent until the right moment to speak arises, ensuring that one's actions are respectful and considerate of others' feelings.