In the book "Anam Cara: A Book of Celtic Wisdom," author John O'Donohue reflects on the nature of grief in relation to death. He suggests that instead of mourning those who have passed, we should recognize that they have transitioned to a state free from suffering and pain. This perspective encourages a celebration of life rather than an emphasis on loss.

According to O'Donohue, the deceased have moved beyond the trials of life, entering a realm devoid of loneliness and despair. Embracing this idea can offer comfort to the living, allowing them to find solace in the belief that their loved ones have returned home to a place of peace and fulfillment. This viewpoint shifts the narrative from sorrow to an understanding of eternal connection and serenity.