We grow in part by confessing our faults and weaknesses to each other {James 5:16; Eccl. 4:10}. If we are always being strong and without needs, we are not growing, and we are setting ourselves up for a very dangerous fall.
The essence of growth lies in acknowledging our imperfections and sharing them with others. This practice, as suggested in scriptures like James 5:16 and Ecclesiastes 4:10, encourages vulnerability and honesty in relationships. By not showing our needs or weaknesses, we hinder our personal development and risk facing dire consequences in our lives.
In his book "Safe People," author Henry Cloud emphasizes that pretending to be invulnerable can create isolation and prevent real connections. True strength comes from recognizing our flaws and seeking support from those we trust. This openness is crucial for building healthier, more meaningful relationships.