we're the only ones who can evaluate and set the terms of our lives. Far too often, we look at other people and make their approval the standard we feel compelled to meet, and as a result, squander our very potential and purpose.
In Ryan Holiday's book "The Ego Is the Enemy," he emphasizes the importance of self-evaluation and defining one's own standards in life. He argues that seeking validation from others can lead to a loss of potential and purpose, as people often conform to external expectations rather than pursuing their true paths.
This tendency to rely on external approval can distract individuals from their unique goals and aspirations. By prioritizing personal judgment and understanding, one can reclaim their power to shape their lives, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling existence.
