We should all busy ourselves in being who we are, although many of us do not and spend so much time and energy being something else. We try to be what others want us to be, or what we ourselves want to be. And then we suddenly realise that our lives have shot past and we have not got round to being who we really
In "The Dog Who Came In from the Cold," Alexander McCall Smith explores the theme of authenticity versus pretense. Many individuals invest significant effort in molding themselves into the versions of themselves that others expect or that they believe will bring them success. This struggle to please others often overshadows their true identities, leading to a disconnection from who they really are.
The realization that life has swiftly passed by without living authentically can be both jarring and poignant. The quote encourages readers to focus on self-acceptance and to embrace their genuine selves. By doing so, individuals can find fulfillment and contentment, ultimately leading to a more meaningful existence.
