In "The Art of Being," Susan C. Young emphasizes the importance of inner substance over outward beauty. She suggests that while some individuals may initially attract attention due to their physical appearance, true value lies in what they express. This insight reflects a common experience where someone’s lack of meaningful contribution becomes apparent once they begin to communicate.

Young advocates for a focus on cultivating one’s presence and essence. By doing so, individuals can ensure that their interactions are enriching and impactful. This approach encourages personal growth and the development of a deeper connection with others, transcending superficial impressions.