Egwene reflects on her conversations with Ila, highlighting the intimate nature of their discussions where Ila shares insights on womanhood. This interaction contrasts sharply with the male perspective, as the man laughs dismissively, asserting that men naturally know how to be men without guidance. Egwene’s reply challenges this notion, suggesting that the lack of wisdom in his approach contributes to his shortcomings.

The exchange illustrates the differences in social expectations for men and women. While women may seek advice and bond over shared experiences, men often feel pressured to conform to traditional notions of masculinity without reflection or guidance. Egwene’s witty comeback emphasizes the importance of understanding and learning in shaping one's identity, regardless of gender.