What I'd really hate would be the settled feeling, with nothing but happiness to look forward to. Of course no life is perfectly happy- Rose's children will probably get ill, the servants may be difficult, perhaps dear Mrs. Cotton will prove to be the teeniest fly in the ointment. {I should like to know what fly was originally in what ointment.} There are hundreds of worries and even sorrows that may come along, but- I think what I really mean is that Rose won't be wanting things to happen. She will want things to stay just as they are. She will never have the fun of hoping something wonderful and exciting may be just round the corner.
The quote reflects a profound perspective on the nature of happiness and the human experience. The speaker expresses a distaste for a life where everything is settled and predictable, suggesting that such a life might lack depth and excitement. In contrast to the assumed contentment, the speaker acknowledges the inevitability of challenges and difficulties, emphasizing that a state of perfect happiness is unrealistic. The mention of various potential issues highlights that life is filled with uncertainties, which can enhance one's appreciation for fleeting moments of joy.
The idea that Rose may become complacent in her happiness is particularly poignant. Rather than embracing the unpredictability of life, she might find herself wanting to maintain her current state, never daring to hope for new adventures or unforeseen joys. This fear of stagnation poses a significant dilemma: while seeking stability can provide comfort, it can also deprive individuals of the thrill of anticipation and the possibility of transformative experiences. Ultimately, the text offers a reflection on the balance between seeking happiness and embracing life's uncertainties.
