In "Kiss Me Like a Stranger: My Search for Love and Art," Gene Wilder reflects on his relationship with acting and love. He realizes that his pursuit of acting doesn't stem from a need for validation or love from a higher power, but rather is driven by personal passion. Wilder emphasizes that the act of performing can be enjoyable, yet it does not define his worth or the love he feels.

Wilder finds solace in the love he shares with someone special, which gives him a sense of fulfillment beyond his career. His statement highlights that genuine connection and love from another person is far more valuable than the need for external affirmation, showcasing the importance of authentic relationships in finding true happiness.