What is unique about the I hides itself exactly in what is unimaginable about a person. All we are able to imagine is what makes everyone like everyone else, what people have in common. The individual I is what differs from the common stock, that is, what cannot be guessed at or calculated, what must be unveiled, uncovered, conquered.
The uniqueness of an individual, referred to as the "I," lies in aspects of personality that defy imagination and understanding. While we can easily identify traits that link people together, the true essence of a person remains elusive and cannot be simply deduced. This individuality is what sets each person apart from the rest of humanity, making them distinct in their thoughts, experiences, and qualities.
To truly know someone, one must go beyond surface-level similarities and engage with the deeper, uncharted territories of their character. This journey of discovery is not straightforward; it requires effort to reveal and embrace the complexities that shape a person's identity. Kundera emphasizes that the core of being truly 'I' is intertwined with the enigmatic aspects that make each person uniquely themselves, underscoring the importance of personal exploration in relationships.
