"When faced with something you dislike, your first step should be to try to change the situation itself. If changing the situation isn't possible, then consider shifting your perspective or attitude towards it." This encourages proactive solutions and personal growth rather than mere complaints or negativity.
"The quote from Maya Angelou's book highlights the importance of taking responsibility for your feelings and reactions. It offers wisdom that acceptance and mindset adjustments are powerful tools for dealing with challenges when direct change isn't an option."