In "The Gem Collector" by P.G. Wodehouse, Lady Jane reflects on her past experiences with marriage, particularly with a partner she deemed weak. Her dissatisfaction leads her to reevaluate her views on male attributes, ultimately recognizing the value of strength. This realization shapes her understanding of what qualities are essential in a man.

Despite acknowledging some of his faults, Lady Jane's perception of strength overshadows them, marking it as the most desirable quality in a partner. Her journey highlights the significance of personal experiences in shaping one's preferences and standards in relationships.