Wheather it is conscious or not, you eventually make the decision to divide your life in half - before and after - with loss being that tight bubble in the middle. You can move around in spite of it; you can laugh and smile and carry on with your life, but all it takes is one slow range of motion, a doubling over, to be fully aware of the empty space at your center.
In Jodi Picoult's "Vanishing Acts," the author explores the profound impact of loss on an individual's life. This loss creates a clear division in one's existence, marking a before-and-after scenario that alters the way a person perceives their world. Despite the ongoing daily activities and appearances of normalcy, the underlying grief persists, forming a distinct void that cannot be ignored.
The narrative emphasizes that even while moving forward, the memory of loss is always present. One moment of reflection can bring a wave of awareness to the emptiness left behind, reminding us that healing is a complex process. The journey involves both the ability to experience joy and the unavoidable acknowledgment of sorrow that resides at the core of one's being.