When individuals attempt to follow their unconscious drives, they often struggle to meet their own desires as well as the expectations of those around them. This tension can lead to a necessary distancing from family, friends, and partners, as people seek to understand and express their true selves. Consequently, this pursuit may give the impression that a person has become antisocial or self-centered.

However, labeling such individuals as egocentric overlooks an important aspect of their journey—the collective or social dimension of the Self. While it may seem that attention to the unconscious fosters a sense of isolation, the underlying motivation is often a deeper quest for identity and connection with others, highlighting the complex interplay between individuality and social belonging.