In Sophie Kinsella's "Twenties Girl," the character Sadie Lancaster shares her perspective on how relationships were navigated in her youth. She recalls that if a boy acted poorly, rather than confronting him directly or making a scene, a girl would simply remove his name from her dance card. This reflects a sense of decorum and understated decision-making in social interactions during her time.
Through Sadie's advice to Lara Lington, the story highlights the contrast between past and present attitudes towards dating and behavior. It encourages readers to consider how societal norms have evolved. Sadie's approach embodies a more passive yet assertive way of reclaiming one's choices, allowing for personal empowerment in a more subtle manner.