In her book "Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?", Mindy Kaling shares a unique perspective on karaoke. She suggests that instead of viewing karaoke as a competition, participants should see themselves as temporary DJs. This shift in mindset emphasizes the communal aspect of the experience, where the goal is to enhance the party atmosphere rather than focusing solely on personal performance.

Kaling encourages singers to choose lively and uplifting songs that contribute to a fun environment for their friends. By taking on the role of a DJ, singers can help create a memorable night filled with enjoyment and connection, allowing everyone to relax, socialize, and have a great time together.