In "Silas Marner," George Eliot explores the impact of how we are treated by others on our self-perception. When people experience kindness and respect, it fosters a sense of worthiness in themselves. This positive treatment can lead individuals to acknowledge their own value and feel deserving of good things in life. Consequently, they may start treating themselves with the care and respect they receive from others.

This idea emphasizes the reciprocal nature of human interactions. When we are shown compassion, it encourages us to extend that compassion inward, nurturing our own well-being. Thus, the way we are treated not only influences our self-esteem but also reinforces the belief that we should care for ourselves, aligning our actions with the goodness we experience from those around us.