In "Why Not Me?", Mindy Kaling highlights the importance of bravery in pursuing success. She observes that people's reactions can differ greatly based on your trajectory. When someone strives for success and begins to excel, it often evokes fear and anxiety in others, as they might feel threatened by the possibility of change or the disruption of the status quo.

Conversely, when a person is failing, it tends to elicit a sense of comfort among peers. This comfort stems from the familiar narrative of struggle and defeat, which doesn't provoke the same feelings of jealousy or insecurity. Kaling's message emphasizes the need for courage to chase aspirations, even when it sparks discomfort in those around you.