In the book "Lily and the Major," Wilbur expresses shock at the thought of Lily living on Suds Row, a place he implies is beneath her. His concern for her future is evident when he proposes to her, suggesting that if the major does not marry her, he is willing to take that step.
Lily, however, feels frustrated and overwhelmed by Wilbur's unsolicited proposal and the pressure to settle down. She quickly asserts that she has no intention of living in such a disreputable area, dismissing Wilbur's offer in order to focus on her own desires and future without relying on a man.