You discovered yourself and what really mattered only after you passed through the lens of the fairy tale, imposed on every human female and male alike, that someone existed out in the forest of the world for you to love and marry.
In Jonathan Lethem's book "Dissident Gardens," the author explores the concept of self-discovery through the metaphor of a fairy tale. He suggests that individuals often envision a perfect partner waiting for them in life, guided by societal expectations of love and marriage. This belief can distort one’s view of personal fulfillment and identity.
The journey through this societal lens is essential for individuals to recognize their true values and desires. By navigating through these fairy tale ideals, people often learn that love and self-realization come from within, rather than from an external source or a destined partner. This message resonates with the universal quest for identity and meaning in relationships.
