You get them wrong before you meet them, while you're anticipating meeting them; you get them wrong while you're with them; and then you go home to tell somebody else about the meeting and you get them wrong all again...That's how we know we're alive: we're wrong. Maybe the best thing would be to forget being right or wrong about people and just go along for the ride. But if you can do that- well, lucky you.
In "American Pastoral," Philip Roth explores the complexities of human perception and interaction. He highlights how we often misjudge others before meeting them, during the actual encounter, and even when recounting the experience later. This cycle of misunderstanding reflects the nature of human relationships and our constant struggle to connect authentically with others.
Roth suggests that rather than fixating on being right or wrong about people, we should embrace the unpredictability of these interactions. Accepting the uncertainties of our perceptions and experiences may lead to a more fulfilling engagement with life and relationships. Ultimately, the acceptance of being wrong is a part of the human experience.
