"You're so bossy," is a common criticism often directed at women, reflecting gender stereotypes about leadership and assertiveness. This phrase highlights the double standard where women's assertiveness is seen negatively, while the same behavior in men is often praised as leadership qualities such as decisiveness or authority.

Jeffrey Archer questions this gender bias, suggesting that when men exhibit similar traits, they are viewed as strong leaders rather than bossy. The quote encourages reflection on societal perceptions and the need to challenge gender-based judgments about behavior and leadership qualities.