You thought it would get easier when you arrived; instead, it's even harder-a different animal entirely. What you found is that you must manage yourself in order to maintain your success.
In "The Ego Is the Enemy," Ryan Holiday highlights the challenges people face when striving for success. He emphasizes that reaching a goal often presents unforeseen difficulties, making the journey more complex than anticipated. Instead of easing the struggle, arriving at a milestone can bring new and demanding challenges that require a different level of self-management.
The book suggests that in order to achieve and sustain success, individuals must focus on mastering their own egos and personal behaviors. This internal management is crucial; only by understanding and regulating oneself can one navigate the increased complexities that come with accomplishment.