Category: death-of-a-loved-one
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Pulling through is what people do around here. There is a kind of bravery in their lives that isn't bravery at all. It is automatic, unflinching, a mix of man and machine, consuming and unquestionable obligation meeting illness move for move in a giant even-steven game of chess – an unending round of something that looks like shadowboxing, though between love and death, which is the shadow? "Everyone admires us for our courage," says one man. "They have no idea what they're talking about."
"Courage requires options," the man adds.
"There are options," says a woman with a thick suede headband. "You could give up. You could fall apart."
"No you can't. Nobody does. I've never seen it," says the man. "Well, not really fall apart. book-quotelovedeathillnessStaring out to sea, I finally forced myself to stop thinking of her as someone still somewhere, if only in memory, still obscurely alive, breathing, doing, moving, but as a shovelful of ashes already scattered; as a broken link, a biological dead end, an eternal withdrawal from reality, a once complex object that now dwindled, dwindled, left nothing behind except a l like a fallen speck of soot on a blank sheet of paper. book-quotememoriesdeath-of-a-loved-one