"A Complicated Kindness" is a novel by Miriam Toews that explores the life of a young woman named Nomi Nickel, growing up in a small Mennonite community in Canada. The story is narrated by Nomi, who grapples with the strict religious upbringing imposed by her community while yearning for freedom and understanding. The book delves into themes of faith, identity, and the struggles between individual desires and community expectations.
Nomi's family dynamics are central to the narrative, especially her relationship with her mother, who has mysteriously left the family, and her father, who is consumed by his faith. This absence profoundly impacts Nomi, making her question her beliefs and the values of her community. As she navigates her teenage years, Nomi's rebellion against the constraints of her life becomes evident, highlighting her search for belonging and authenticity.