REBT, then, helps you not only to understand what you "are" but to change what you harmfully think, feel, and do. It accepts your desires, wishes, preferences, goals, and values, then tries to help you achieve them. But REBT shows you how to separate your preferences from your insistences-and thus keep from sabotaging your own goals. It gives you insight into what you are now doing rather than into what you {and your damned parents!} have done.
( Albert Ellis )
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