A while back, when Dick and Barry and I agreed that what really matters is what you like, not what you are like, Barry proposed the idea of a questionnaire for prospective partners.
In Nick Hornby's book "High Fidelity," a pivotal moment occurs when the characters Dick, Barry, and the narrator come to a collective realization about relationships. They conclude that a person's preferences and interests hold more importance than superficial qualities or personality traits. This understanding shapes their approach to connecting with others.
Following this moment of insight, Barry suggests creating a questionnaire for potential partners. This idea reflects their commitment to finding meaningful connections based on shared tastes and values, rather than focusing on conventional attributes. The notion of exploring what truly matters lays the foundation for deeper relationships in the story.