During family gatherings, it's common to feel overwhelmed by intense emotions toward certain relatives. Ann Lamott humorously suggests that in many cases, it’s surprising these individuals are even around to drive us crazy. This highlights the complexity of familial relationships and the need for patience and understanding during challenging interactions.

Lamott likens life to a "Forgiveness School," where we are encouraged to practice forgiveness with those closest to us, starting with our family gatherings. It's a reminder that personal growth and emotional resilience can often be developed in familiar, comfortable settings, such as around the dinner table.