At family gatherings where you suddenly feel homicidal or suicidal, remember that in half of all cases, it's a miracle that this annoying person even lived. Earth is Forgiveness School. You might as well start at the dinner table. That way, you can do this work in comfortable pants.1 - ANNE LAMOTT
During family gatherings, it's common to feel overwhelmed by intense emotions toward certain relatives. Ann Lamott humorously suggests that in many cases, it’s surprising these individuals are even around to drive us crazy. This highlights the complexity of familial relationships and the need for patience and understanding during challenging interactions.
Lamott likens life to a "Forgiveness School," where we are encouraged to practice forgiveness with those closest to us, starting with our family gatherings. It's a reminder that personal growth and emotional resilience can often be developed in familiar, comfortable settings, such as around the dinner table.