In "Hillbilly Elegy," J.D. Vance explores the complex emotions that arise from societal comparisons, particularly highlighting how figures like Barack Obama can evoke both admiration and feelings of inadequacy. Obama represents an ideal of success, family, and professionalism that starkly contrasts with the realities faced by many working-class individuals. This disparity forces people to confront their own shortcomings, making them feel insecure about their life choices and circumstances.

Vance illustrates the tension that arises from these comparisons, especially in light of Michelle Obama's health campaigns. Many families grapple with feelings of resentment toward her guidance, knowing her advice is correct yet feeling inadequate to implement it due to their struggles. This dynamic highlights a significant cultural divide, where well-meaning messages from public figures can intensify feelings of failure in communities already facing numerous challenges.