In life, we often receive things that we may not feel we have earned, yet it's essential to recognize that we don't have to relinquish those blessings. The notion of merit is subjective, and fortune can come unexpectedly. It is also crucial to acknowledge that many others may be better off than we are, highlighting the inherent inequality in the world despite our efforts to address it.

Miss Hardy emphasizes that everyone has both advantages and disadvantages, making the concept of universal happiness elusive. Fate assigns its own form of equality, reminding us that life is unpredictable and no one is guaranteed constant joy or success. Rather than striving for a perfect balance, we should accept the complexities of our circumstances.