Bertie reflected on his mother’s tendency to ruin things for him. He saw their conversation about Grey Owl, a man he found quite appealing, as an example of her behavior. Bertie questioned why anyone should be restricted from living freely and pursuing their passions, such as dressing in feathers and enjoying nature. He felt that his mother, once again, was trying to diminish the joy associated with Grey Owl's choices.

This interaction highlights Bertie’s internal conflict regarding his mother’s influence on his perceptions of freedom and individuality. Despite her well-meaning intentions, her critical view of Grey Owl’s lifestyle struck Bertie as excessive and limiting. He longs for the ability to admire people who choose unique paths, even if they differ from conventional norms, without his mother’s disapproval clouding the enjoyment of those ideas.