Bit by bit, nevertheless, it comes over us that we shall never again hear the laughter of our friend, that this one garden is forever locked against us. And at that moment begins our true mourning, which, though it may not be rending, is yet a little bitter. For nothing, in truth, can replace that companion. Old friends cannot be created out of hand. Nothing can match the treasure of common memories, of trials endured together, of quarrels and reconciliations and generous emotions. It is idle, having planted an acorn in the morning, to expect that afternoon to sit in the shade of the oak.
by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
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The author reflects on the profound sense of loss that accompanies the death of a friend, realizing that their voice and laughter will never fill their life again. This moment of understanding leads to genuine mourning, characterized by a bittersweet recognition of the irreplaceable bond formed through shared experiences and memories. Such friendships, forged over time, create a unique connection that cannot simply be recreated or replaced.

The text emphasizes that cultivating deep relationships takes time and effort, much like nurturing an acorn into an oak tree. The expectation for something significant to grow from a new seedling is unrealistic; true friendship requires patience and shared history. As the author mourns, they acknowledge the depth and richness of their lost companion and how no new friendship can replicate that treasured past.

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