In "Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close" by Jonathan Safran Foer, the narrator reflects on the complexity of relationships and emotions, particularly that of the bond they share with a loved one. The notion that these connections can be overwhelming and intricate is emphasized, suggesting that understanding them involves navigating a web of feelings and experiences. However, beneath this complexity lies a profound simplicity. The narrator suggests that despite the multitude of layers and difficulties in relationships, there are fundamental truths and feelings that make the experience of love and support straightforward and pure. This duality highlights the beauty and intricacy of human connections.

But I believe that things are extremely complicated, and her looking over me was as complicated as anything could ever be. But it was also incredibly simple.