Mindy Kaling reflects on self-acceptance in her book "Why Not Me?". She emphasizes that her confidence doesn't stem from considering herself exceptional but rather from not harboring self-loathing. Kaling acknowledges her imperfections and the mistakes she makes but chooses not to be defined by them or let them cause her lasting trauma.

She also observes that some individuals feel uneasy around women who embrace self-love and confidence. This notion highlights the societal pressure on women to be self-critical, suggesting that cultivating bravery is essential for navigating these dynamics and promoting self-acceptance.