Mindy Kaling in her book "Why Not Me?" discusses the importance of perception in achieving success. She humorously suggests that portraying a sense of urgency and tension, especially during mundane tasks like getting measured for clothes, can enhance how others perceive your seriousness. By engaging in heated phone calls during such moments, one can create an impression of being busy and important.

This idea highlights how our behavior and the situations we create can influence the way we are viewed by others. Kaling encourages readers to embrace strategies like this to navigate social and professional environments effectively, reinforcing the notion that perception plays a significant role in personal and career advancement.