..."Charming people, when not actively shooting one another," a friend had once said, which was so unkind, but, like so many unkind comments, had a grain of truth in it. They shoot one another and had been doing so for centuries. They did bicker over and brood on long-dead history--or history that should be long dead. The problem with history was that it refused to lie down and die.
In "The Forgotten Affairs of Youth," Alexander McCall Smith explores the complex nature of human relationships within a historical context. A character reflects on how charming people can often be embroiled in conflict, hinting at a darker truth about their interactions. Despite their appealing surface, they have a tendency to engage in disputes, revealing that even the most delightful individuals can harbor a propensity for conflict.
The narrative underscores the persistent grip of history on the present. Characters are depicted as brooding over old grievances, suggesting that unresolved issues from the past continue to influence their current lives. This acknowledgment of the enduring impact of history serves as a reminder that certain conflicts remain alive, complicating relationships even when they should be forgotten.