In Mindy Kaling's book "Why Not Me?", she discusses the concept of confidence and entitlement. She argues that entitlement has received a negative connotation, often associated with spoiled individuals, but it actually signifies a belief in one's own worthiness. Kaling suggests that feeling entitled to success is not inherently bad; it reflects a healthy self-confidence. However, she emphasizes that this belief must be matched by actual achievements to be justified.

Kaling’s perspective challenges the negative stereotypes surrounding entitlement, urging readers to understand that a strong sense of deserving can empower them. Confidence, tied to this sense of entitlement, is a crucial component of personal growth. She highlights the importance of working hard and cultivating one’s talents, advocating for a balance between self-belief and the accountability that comes with it.