Confidence is just entitlement. Entitlement has gotten a bad rap because it's used almost exclusively for the useless children of the rich, reality TV stars, and Conrad Hilton Jr., who gets kicked off an airplane for smoking pot in the lavatory and calling people peasants or whatever. But entitlement in and of itself isn't so bad. Entitlement is simply the belief that you deserve something. Which is great. The hard part is, you'd better make sure you deserve it.
In Mindy Kaling's book "Why Not Me?", she discusses the concept of confidence and entitlement. She argues that entitlement has received a negative connotation, often associated with spoiled individuals, but it actually signifies a belief in one's own worthiness. Kaling suggests that feeling entitled to success is not inherently bad; it reflects a healthy self-confidence. However, she emphasizes that this belief must be matched by actual achievements to be justified.
Kaling’s perspective challenges the negative stereotypes surrounding entitlement, urging readers to understand that a strong sense of deserving can empower them. Confidence, tied to this sense of entitlement, is a crucial component of personal growth. She highlights the importance of working hard and cultivating one’s talents, advocating for a balance between self-belief and the accountability that comes with it.
