Dying, Morris suddenly said, is only one thing to be sad over, Mitch. Living unhappily is something else. So many of the people who come to visit me are unhappy.Why?Well, for one thing, the culture we have does not make people feel good about themselves. We're teaching the wrong things. And you have to be strong enough to say if the culture doesn't work, don't buy it. Create your own. Most people can't do it. They're more unhappy than me -- even in my current condition. I may be dying, but I am surrounded by loving, caring souls. How many people can say that?
Morris reflects on the nature of happiness and sadness, distinguishing between the sadness of dying and the deeper issue of living unhappily. He points out that many of his visitors struggle with unhappiness, largely due to societal pressures and cultural values that undermine self-worth. He emphasizes the importance of rejecting a culture that doesn't serve one's well-being and encourages individuals to create their own paths to happiness.
Despite facing his own mortality, Morris finds solace in the love and support surrounding him. He suggests that, while he may be dying, he still possesses a sense of fulfillment that eludes many people who are trapped in their dissatisfaction. This highlights the idea that true happiness comes from connections with others, and it serves as a reminder of the resilience needed to overcome a culture that cultivates unhappiness.
