The protagonist in "Oryx and Crake" experiences a profound disconnection from his own sexuality, which he perceives as a once-fulfilling aspect of life that has now lost its significance. Despite his addiction to sex, he feels like a mere puppet, controlled by his desires rather than a complete and integrated person. This sense of detachment makes him question the purpose and value of his physical needs.

This internal struggle reveals a deeper commentary on the objectification of desire and the way it can dominate one’s existence. The protagonist's wish for his desires to be independent highlights a longing for autonomy, suggesting that what once seemed like a natural part of human experience is now a source of confusion and frustration. Atwood's exploration of sexuality reflects broader themes of alienation and the impact of society on individual identity.