The phrase "He who dies with the most toys wins" reflects a misguided belief that material accumulation equates to success. Many individuals seem to embrace this notion, dedicating their lives to acquiring possessions that ultimately hold no lasting value. In contrast, the reality is that everyone faces death, regardless of their material wealth, and cannot take their belongings with them into the afterlife.

The true message is that focusing solely on material gain leads to a loss rather than a win. As we transition into eternity, the items we cherished will remain behind, often discarded and forgotten. Alcorn's work emphasizes the importance of finding joy in giving and valuing experiences and relationships over possessions, suggesting a more meaningful approach to life that transcends the temporary satisfaction of accumulating "toys."