First practice not letting people know who you are-keep your philosophy to yourself for a bit. In just the manner that fruit is produced-the seed buried for a season, hidden, growing gradually so it may come to full maturity. But if the grain sprouts before the stalk is fully developed, it will never ripen…. That is the kind of plant you are, displaying fruit too soon, and the winter will kill you. -EPICTETUS, DISCOURSES, 4.8.35b–37
Epictetus emphasizes the importance of patience and discretion in personal growth. He suggests that individuals should refrain from revealing their true selves or beliefs too early, similar to how a seed must remain buried until it is fully matured. By keeping one's philosophy private for a time, it allows for gradual growth and preparation for eventual emergence.
He warns against the dangers of prematurely showcasing one's potential, comparing it to a plant that sprouts before it's ready, which ultimately leads to failure. This metaphor highlights the need to develop fully before exposing oneself to the world, as doing so too soon may lead to vulnerability and setbacks.