In the aftermath of the Sexual Revolution, women found themselves in a paradoxical situation where the enjoyment of sex transformed into an obligation rather than a source of pleasure. This shift made reaching the perfect orgasm just another item on a growing checklist of societal expectations and accomplishments. Instead of being a natural expression of intimacy, sexual experiences became a measure of success, contributing to a feeling of disconnection and dissatisfaction.

When enjoyment is treated as a duty, it leads to a decline in genuine pleasure and emotional fulfillment. The pressure to achieve a perfect sexual experience can result in a dreary outlook, where the joy that should accompany intimacy is overshadowed by expectations. This state of affairs challenges the essence of what it means to connect with oneself and others on a deeper level.